Empowerment Through Transformation: Valerie Bertinelli's Journey with Divorce and Self-Acceptance
Valerie Bertinelli recently discussed her experiences with divorce on "The Drew Barrymore Show." During the show, she shared how she turned her wedding ring into a celebratory bracelet after her second divorce. Drew Barrymore, who has been through three divorces, also expressed support for the trend of repurposing wedding rings as a way to lift spirits and empower individuals who have gone through divorce.
Bertinelli reflected on her two divorces, highlighting the differences between them. She mentioned selling her ring back to the jeweler after her last divorce and getting an evil eye bracelet as a symbol of celebration. Barrymore praised the trend of transforming wedding rings, emphasizing that divorce should not be a source of shame and that it can bring a sense of empowerment and rebelliousness.
The actress, known for her role in "Hot in Cleveland," was previously married to Eddie Van Halen from 1981 to 2007 and later to Tom Vitale from 2011 to 2022. Following her split from Vitale, Bertinelli described their relationship as toxic on social media. She shared personal experiences of being criticized for her weight and how she has overcome negative self-perceptions.
In early 2023, Bertinelli opened up about her struggles with body image and self-esteem on social media. She expressed how hurtful comments had affected her but emphasized her journey towards self-acceptance. In March 2024, she announced a new relationship with Mike Goodnough, describing it as unlike any other she had experienced. However, the relationship ended in November 2024, leading Bertinelli to reflect on her past decisions and relationships.
In February 2025, Bertinelli shared a heartfelt Instagram post acknowledging her failed marriages and expressing regret over losing a good man. She admitted to her mistakes and advised against taking relationship advice from her. Despite her challenges, Bertinelli remains a devoted mother to her son, Wolfgang, whom she shares with her late ex-husband, Eddie Van Halen, who passed away in 2020.