Colman Domingo: A Journey of Love and Acceptance

Colman Domingo: A Journey of Love and Acceptance

Colman Domingo found unwavering support from his family when he came out as gay in his 20s. The actor, known for his role in Michael, opened up about his coming-out journey in a recent Men’s Health feature. Domingo, 56, has been married to producer and writer Raúl Domingo since 2014. The first family member he confided in about his sexual orientation was his older brother, Derek, during a visit to a strip club. Derek's reaction was one of initial disbelief, followed by unconditional love and support for his brother's truth.

Following his conversation with Derek, Domingo's older sister, Averie, expressed her frustration at not being the first to know about his coming out. Despite her initial reaction, she ultimately stood by her brother and offered her support. The last family members to learn about Domingo's sexual orientation were his late mother, Edith, and stepfather, Clarence Bowles. Despite initial secrecy, Domingo's mother accepted him wholeheartedly, and even when his stepfather discovered the truth, he reassured Domingo of his unwavering love and support.

It wasn't until 2005 that Domingo crossed paths with his now-husband, Raúl. Their serendipitous meeting began at a Walgreens and culminated in a Craigslist "Missed Connections" ad that brought them together. Domingo shared this heartwarming story on a 2024 episode of The Graham Norton Show, highlighting the unexpected and beautiful journey that led him to his life partner.